How many people can really say that they are 100% truly happy in there current relationship. There’s no such thing as a perfect person and everyone out there has his or her faults and its really up to the other person whether to choose to live with there partners faults and accept the other person for who they truly are or leave them and move on to see if there is someone out there who will treat them better or at least the way that they think they should be treated. That’s the million dollar question … Is there someone better out there for you?

I’m not saying go dump your partner right now because they don’t treat you well. What I’m trying to tell you is your relationship at this stage where your both not happy and it’s not the same anymore. Both of you don’t talk anymore, your always arguing and fighting. Your not intimate with each other, you don’t have sex anymore and your either living together right now to share a roof and share the bills or you are staying together just because you’ve been with each other so long that you don’t know what else to do and your scared.

Everyone’s situation is different and circumstances always change you can be in a relationship for 3 months or been married for 10 years but one thing is for sure is that people don’t change. People will try to change and do there very best to try and make there significant other happy for a while but it’s just a matter of time till they revert back to there old selves and do whatever it was that made there partner unhappy in the first place. So now what do you do. Can you live with this person for the rest of your life unhappy and miserable or do you take a stand and move on with your life and leave this person?

Like I said everyone’s situation is different whether it be for financial reasons you stay together, your not sure how you can survive with only one income or you have children together, maybe you have nothing else, you don’t have any family or friends to fall back on because you left them to be with this person. Maybe this is all you know, you’ve been with this person for so long, you don’t know how to move on or even start a new life without this person, or your just plain SCARED, scared because you think no one else will love you, Scared to be death of being alone. Scared to hurt them or of the fact that when you do get the guts to move on with your life without this person, that they might harm themselves or even you.

I don’t have a solution for you but I do have some advice that I hope can help you make the right decision. Always try to communicate your feelings with your partner, don’t let it build up and let explode into a huge fight. If your partner always thinks your just nagging every time you try to tell them how your feeling, maybe it’s the way your communicating your point to them. Try not to make it sound like your nagging and give them a solution that you think might help both of you and that you are trying to help the situation yourself. If you think communicating this information to your partner might start a fight, then write it in a letter. All the things that are bothering you and let it all out. By doing this, your releasing out some of that anger and will help you feel better, you don’t even have to give them the letter, just hold on to it till another day if you want to let them know how you’ve been really feeling.

You can also make a list of the pros and cons of being with this person. Look at all the good things that this person has to offer and all the bad things that turns you off about this person. Try not to be knit pickey about everything but focus on there real faults. I know all the little things can add up but remember everyone is different in there own way and dosen’t think exactly like you.

If you tried communicating and writing down all the pros and cons and those cons are still out weighing your pros and your still going through the same things and its going no where …. If you are not Truly Happy and its bringing everything else in your life down, then I think its time to move on…

Don’t live just half your life. Live it to the Fullest. You Deserve to be HAPPY.
If you can live by these simple rules:
-Remember Life is to Short
-Break the Rules
-Forgive Quickly
-Kiss Slowly
-Love Truly
-Laugh uncontrollably
-And Never Regret Anything that Made you SMILE !!!

I Guarantee you will find HAPPINESS once again