I always wonder this and why people can change there attitude towards you on a drop of a dime. I wish I could just get in someone’s mind and see what the hell there thinking, when they get like this. How can someone be so nice and sweet to you one second and and then all of a sudden be so mean to you like you just did the worst thing ever to them.

Back in the day when I was going out with this one girl, I use to get this all the time. It was the worst because it felt like you didn’t know where you stood with this girl. So I made a name for it back then. I called and D&D. Which stood for Distant and Different. An example of when this would happened to me would be when I was out on a date with my girlfriend and we were having the greatest time ever, everything seemed so perfect, she was so affectionate with me and saying all the sweetest things. You knew that this girl loved you and thought the world of you. You felt like you were on top of the world and could take anything on. You have a hard time leaving one another. You finally say your good nights to each other and part ways. You go home and you feel like the HAPPIEST PERSON ALIVE !!!

You even call each other that night because you miss her so much. So your saying good nights again but your arguing whose going to hang up first, “No you Hang Up, No You First.” You know what I’m talking about. Every cheesy teenager did this when they thought they were in Love. So you finally hang up and go to bed. Life is Good and it can’t get any Better then this you think to yourself.

So it’s the next day and you don’t get a call from her. You try to call her and she doesn’t answer, so you leave a voicemail. Couple of hours pass and you still don’t hear back. You try to play the tough guy and not call her but its KILLING you inside why she hasn’t called you yet. So then you cave and call her like 5 times in a span of 3 minutes.
Still no answer. WHAT IS UP WITH HER? Your thinking. Less then 12 Hours ago you just had the TIME OF YOUR LIFE with her and now you can’t barley function. You don’t want to eat or do anything because of her. Finally the phone rings you pick it up and its not her and your in this really Bad mood. Other line beeps, so you frantically say hold and answer the other line and it’s Finally her. You try to play it cool and give this attitude like nothing is bothering you and you ask “Where have you been?” How come you haven’t answered my calls, “Why haven’t you called me?” and she makes up some lame excuse and you let it go but you still feel bad but your glad that she called you.

This is where D&D kicks in. She is acting totally Distant and Different with you.
She acting nothing like herself, in everything she does towards you. I know its seems like little things but this is how it starts out. She’s not being sweet to you on the phone, she acting all mean and rude towards you, it’s like she doesn’t want to even talk to you. What the Hell did you do. So she lets you go off the phone, when she usually gets off the phone she says “I Love you” first and today she didn’t. Distant and Different … this is how it begins. There’s no way you can go from Totally in Infatuated with each other to being so Distant and Different.

So you wonder what the Hell you did? Who did she speak to? Did her friends say something to her about you ? You entertain all these thoughts in your head and get paranoid about the whole thing.

How can everything be so perfect one minute and then be so bad the next?
This is one thing I will never understand why it happens. If anyone can answer this, I’d really like to know why it does…. Your thoughts and comments please

Brandon Heart