How can you tell if your man or woman is cheating on you? Well for starters you have a hunch something is really wrong. Don’t jump to any conclusions if it’s something small unless you have some evidence to support your gut feeling. Secondly if you do find something that doesn’t add up, Do Not confront him about it right away. Do your homework; there are safe ways of getting this information by doing a little snooping around to prove your hunch is something substantial. With today’s technology it’s easier then you think to find out if you’re not the only one in his life he’s cyber flirting with.

Signs that could mean he’s being unfaithful:

1.) He’s always extra defensive.
When asking him a simple question, does he answer you in an angry tone of voice? Does he pause a lot and become very fidgety when trying to answer you. If he can’t look you in the eyes when you’re asking him a very simple question like “Where have you been?” then you can assume he’s actually lying to you.

2.) He’s not intimate with you anymore.
If he doesn’t touch you or want to have sex with you anymore than theirs a sign he might be attracted to someone else. If you go from having sex daily to having no sex at all then something’s really wrong. Guys don’t just stop having sex unless they’re getting it somewhere else.

3.) Suspicious phone calls.
When he’s on the phone talking to someone does he have a tendency to all of a sudden hang up the phone when you walk in the room. Does he get a lot of phone calls on his cell phone he chooses to ignore when he’s with you. Does he leave room when he gets phone calls to have a private conversation with someone.

4.) Very protective of his cell phone.
When you use his cell phone or look at it does he always want it back right away like he’s trying to hide something from you. Does he always erase text messages and his call list. Does he have to go through it first, like he’s checking it before he gives it to you. Did he recently change his voicemail to not say his name in it or use the default voicemail greeting. People do this to hide who the phone belongs to and hide if it’s a female or male who own it.

5.) Does he spend more time on the computer then with you. Is he always on the computer late at night. Does he always use some sort of instant messaging where he immediately shuts downs the screens when you walk in the room.

Being discreet or choosing to hide your cyber life doesn’t prove that someone’s actually cheating or having an affair, but if you see any some of these signs, you should bring it to your partner’s attention right away. Talk to him, communicate constantly with your partner when you feel like your drifting apart. This will help you understand each other’s needs and have a long lasting and happy relationship. If not Long term boredom and unhappiness usually leads people to infidelity.