Who am I? I’m just your average Joe, I work, sleep, eat, exercise, watch TV and I have a broken heart that aches but I still live my life. I’m in a relationship and it  has its ups and downs, just like everyone else when everything is fine and dandy I can take on the world. When its bad and  crappy, I just want to rip my heart out of my chest.

Why do I think I’m special? I’m not, I have been through a lot, seen, done and heard it all. I have a LOT of friends who are girls who for some reason always find comfort in talking to me about their guy problems. For the record all the girls that have spilled their guts to me. Don’t worry your stories are safe with me. I’m not going to disclose personal info and names.

I’m a good listener, which really helps people. I take the time to listen to them, let them let it all out, which sometimes is just enough to help someone feel better. If it dosen’t then I give them my opinion, explain what I think they should do to make their situation better. Explain it from a guys point of view and why we do the things we do as men. It may not be the right answer but it’s a start and the first part of fixing any problem is acknowledging it exists and then confronting it.

Whether they choose to do anything, it’s their decision but if they want things to get better in their relationship, they need to speak up. Because for all you people out there that think its going to change on its own. I’m sorry Reality Check! It’s most likely NOT going to – It’s who we are as human beings. It’s human nature, we get comfortable, we’re scared of conflict and getting hurt, the feeling of rejection but most importantly were always Blinded by Love!!!

Brandon Heart